Wednesday, January 12, 2011

A year at a glance...



Happy New Year My dear Friends and Family!
May the blessings of the Christmas season still be ringing in your hearts -
I know they are in ours!
The Childers are still alive and well in England and loving every second of it. It has been a year, yep, nearly a YEAR since I last posted! Aggh! I am so embarrassed. Can you see the red in my face from there? The more time went by, the more excuses I had as to why I couldn't pick it back up. Sometimes I don't get it (myself, that is) because blogs to me are one of the coolest means of communication in the world. It gives a girl like me, an amateur writer, the chance to express herself and share her daily musings with those she loves and treasures the most. As one who truly believes that God has done nothing short of a miracle in her life, I jump at the chance to share these life experiences.
Plus, it seems that so many of my daily stories end up with a sub-title of "Today's Cindy's Comedic Adventure was....".

Since this post is more like a belated Christmas card, I thought I'd take the chance to update you on a bit of what happened in the hearts and lives of these FOUR Childers in the last 12 months. Note: Now having written, edited, revised, edited some more this poem, I realize how truly crazy I am. Knowing you might not read the whole thing, I mixed some pictures in hoping that it might hold your attention. *grin* I'll get right to it:

We welcomed the New Year, with neighbors and friends,

and a beautiful covering of snow;

Weeks later we traded, our truck known as lemon,

for a Land Rover to get to and fro.



Natalie settled in - quite nicely with Ms. Jill,

who teaches at the local preschool;

She painted, sculpted clay, baked sweet lemon cakes,

that surprisingly would make you drool.


(Peanut is on the front row in pigtails wearing the yellow and pink.)

While Liam excelled right next door to his sister,

in a school known as Newton Tony Primary;

Reading, Writing and Maths (!) became essential,

along with phrases like “bins, squash and ‘blimey”.

(Liam is on the back row far right)

Often we ride (bikes), go for runs, float "boats"

down the river in our quaint little village;

However, one of the prettiest blessings thus far,


are the sunrises and sets over the tillage.



Cindy's busy with bible study, playgroups, and the gym,

as well as being travel agent connoisseur;

She also started singing with the St. Paul’s church band,

*what a blessing*, and something she adores.


Clark tutors the students at Empire TPS,

He flies every day - come rain or sun;

He realized he's got the best job in the Navy,

*shhhh*, don't tell anyone!


April began the start of what became,

An amazing travel season;

First off, was Spain, the beautiful Oviedo,

the amazing countryside of the Northern Region.


However, not an hour had passed did our feet,

hit home soil in the great UK;

That Cindy would get sick and realize later, she had Campylobacter,

food poisoning - NO WAY!


Not one, not two, but three weeks later,

did she began to feel somewhat human;

Just in time to throw a *Circus* Birthday Party,

for her sweet little favorite twosome.



My goodness, your thinking, how much more can there be,

she's now just hit the month of May;

Standby, my friends, there is so much more,

we've only gotten to 120 of 365 days.


If April showers bring May flowers,

then I've seen loads of what the Almighty creates;

By the end of the month we'd been to Venice. Stockholm.

And several enchanting estates.


The summer in England was unusually warm,

High in the 70s with no rain;

Odd for this green grassy land we call 'ours'

where our ancestors, once called this "home terrain".


The month of June was full of firsts,

Liam lost a tooth and had his first campout with friends;

For Clark and Cindy, it was the first time we've known,

the Stonehenge “Summer Solstice” trend. (Brrrr)



The beginning of July, Clark and Cindy had a blast,

At the Boscombe Down Summer Ball;

There were bumper cars, magicians, poker tables, fine china

– it was extravagant, nothing small.


With hearts full of glee, two kids and their Mommy,

boarded a plane back to the great US of A;

Two weeks in Georgia with family and friends,

made the red eye flights worth it - in every way!


Just days after returning to Jolly Ol' England,

Clark had us packed up and ready to go;

Off to Disney Land Paris we went straight away,

a vacation that left "all four kids” aglow.


In September the kids went back to school,

to a place in Salisbury: Chafyn Grove;

We cannot say enough about where our kids learn,

we just count our blessings, in droves.



In October, we were blessed with a visit from friends,

The Howells posted overseas as well;

They came from Italy to tour this land,

we loved showing them where we dwell.


November was a blast, with Clark stepping out

in a new and exciting role;

He played several parts, in our Church’s “Mark Drama”,

giving breathtaking performances to many souls.


We wrapped up the year, just the four of us,

Snuggled 'round our Christmas tree;

Thankful for all the blessings we’ve been given,

Knowing God gave His Son for you and me.





Happy New Year! Be blessed in every way and may those blessings overflow to all those around you.

Love, Cindy

"And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God." Philippians 1:9-11 NIV

Saturday, January 9, 2010

A World Away Yet So Close to Home....




Happy 2010! I hope that this post finds all of you having just had a very happy and blessed Christmas season. We couldn't have had a better month ourselves. Right now, we are ankle deep in snow. The unusually cold weather we are getting here in England is what my British friend has told me is caused by a "Negative Atlantic Ocean Oscillation" (???) (ie: High pressure over Iceland). I'm no meterologist so we just refer to this in our house as: It is COLD COLD COLD! I don't think it's been over 0 degrees celsius for a week. This cold weather is having not only a physical effect on this Southern girl but also a mental one as well. I had a somewhat frightening epiphany earlier today: "I am turning into Mr. Rogers". This is no joke. I caught myself and had to laugh and then cry. I came in this afternoon from taking Liam to soccer practice, opened the Hall coat closet, took off my heavy winter parka and then proceeded to put on my zip-up "cardigan thingy" that I wear EVERY day. Seriously. Every day. JUST LIKE MR. ROGERS DOES!! It's blue, it's boring and it's starting to make me feel really old. (But it's SOOOO cold!) So to offset this somewhat depressing revelation, I headed to Salisbury this afternoon to see if I could "Un-frump" my "frumpy" winter wardrobe. You see, as a Georgia gal, we just don't ever have to worry about cold weather so we don't own any "cute" cold-weather clothes. The few times I can remember it getting really cold and snowing growing up in Athens, we simply donned 'Roman Meal' Whole Wheat plastic bread bags on our feet and adhered them with rubber bands above our calves. Who needs expensive Gortex boots?


Now, fast-forward 30 years to this frigid Island, and I have daily decisions to make.... like: Do I wear the one pair of black leather gloves I own that are not water proof nor warm or do I go for function and wear Clark's water-proof sky gloves? Do I wear boots that are stylish and look great with my jeans or do I wear ones that will prohibit me from falling on the ice? Do I fix my hair and forgo the hat today or do I cover up with one of those full head/ear covering wool hats with dangly thingies that looks like my 2-year old daughters?


These are the tough decisions I make daily. If only I were from Chicago like several of my friends, I wouldn't have these issues. So just to let you know I did have a bit of success today and I bought myself a "cute" pair of hiking boots. Wait, is that an oxymoron? Oh well, it's a start.
Speaking of starting, I have no idea where to begin with covering the last six weeks of the Childers' activities. We have been so busy that I am somewhat embarrassed that we didn't get around to doing Christmas cards...that is a first in 7 years! (Don't worry, next year I am all over it!) There were so many wonderful things that happened over Christmas. Here are a few of the highlights:

We celebrated Thanksgiving at our home with 3 of our favorite British families. The food was excellent but the company was even better...made us feel like we were back at home :)

We then followed that up with another Thanksgiving meal two days later on the base with 50 other good friends. Everyone brought a dish and we ate like Kings and Queens, or rather James' and Elizabeths'. The children played on a bouncy castle and our friend Frank taped one of the Thanksgiving Day Football games and we had it playing on a large screen TV. Really working hard to create a true "American" Thanksgiving.

In December, both Liam and Natalie were in their school Christmas plays. Natalie was an angel and looked like a princess but refused to wear her halo......no comment. Liam was a Shephard in Newton Tony Primary School's "Nativity Story". Both events were absolutely amazing and brought tears to this proud Mama's eyes.

We celebrated Christmas Eve at the children's service at Salisbury Cathedral. Mary and Joseph made their entrance into the cathedral with real donkeys, a host of Angels (children) sang from the balcony, and the children's choir serenaded those of us celebrating the great anticipation of Christ's birth with many beautiful christmas carols. It was spectacular and the kid's had twinkles in their eyes for hours afterwards.

New Year's Eve was somewhat mellow but absolutely delightful. Our next door neighbors hosted us at their house for dinner. A small group of about 15 of us rang in the New Year and then proceeded to play a "Murder Mystery" game until the wee hours. It was hilarious and let's just say I'm no good at lying and Clark killed me off early during one of the rounds....hmmm.


I feel like there will be much to write about as 2010 gets into it's full swing. I rejoice that we are where we are and am so grateful that God brought us to this little space on earth for this season of our lives. Make no mistake, God has all of you where you are for good reasons. Give thanks for the little things and look forward to all He has in store for you this year! Be blessed friends, you are so dearly loved and thought of much. Cindy

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Thanksgiving from a 2-year old perspective

So I have been asked by Natalie's teacher if I (the great historian! ha!) will come give a mini presentation to the kids in her class on the meaning of Thanksgiving. Originally, I thought they just wanted some cupcakes that might look like Turkeys, spurred on by the Halloween ones I did in October, but oh no! They want the real deal. So I figured that since most Americans don't know or like me, remember much about the original Thanksgiving story, I thought I'd google it and see if I could find something kid-friendly. Much to my dismay, "quick-and-easy" Wikipedia did not come through and was somewhat weak in their explanation so I did another google search and this one was the first to pop up.
http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=14379
Pretty decent and a quick read as a reminder about where our ancestors came from - particular interesting to me now being on this side of the pond. So now having had the story refreshed in my mind, it will make it more interesting to share about how we (Now:Americans, Former: Brits less we forget) were looking for a "better way" and left their country of England. Tell me how to explain THAT to these British 2 and 3 year olds. Thank goodness I'm not having to do this for older kids!!!! You know how my heart is so fond of the British people. Really quite fond. If anyone out there can direct me to a more kid-friendly website that gives a beautiful description of this great holiday, please feel free to share. That's what blogs are for! In the mean time, I'm going to stick to a good standby and have them make Turkey Apples. You know the ones you make with toothpicks, marshmellows, raisins, gum drops and such. I think this will be the real hit. For me though, it's been a good afternoon of remembering what next week's holiday is really about. God bless, Cindy

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Wonderful Wiltshire












































Greetings Family and Friends and Happy November from England!
It's been a month since I posted - goodness where has the time gone. So much is going on! I'll try and remember some of the highlights or low-lights as us blondes like to say. I've also added some pictures too. I put captions with each one but when I added them to the blog, it doesn't show them. Anybody know how to get around this? So here goes an update on our last 30 days...
Our truck - the only vehicle the Childers' own is on the brink. Yep, and the cost to fix the 5,000 pound truck was 2,000 pounds! Not such a great thing but in the end, we made contact with the dealer up in Peterborough who sold us the truck and they have as of yesterday just come to Salisbury to pick it up and take it back to their dealership and will fix it there and won't charge us a thing: NADA, ZILCH, ZIP - super happy about this and we are thankful as can be. Clark would actually like to just give the truck back and start over shopping for a car but we figured we'd give them one more chance to fix it (we've had 3 major things go wrong with it so far).
Our village - Newton Tony is heaven on earth. I can't even begin to share how much I love this place. We are living the life of a Brit as much as any American can. And we're so glad we made the choice to live out in town. For instance, just the other night as Clark was about to paint our downstairs bathroom, he shook the Laura Ashley paint can and exploded about 2.5 litres of paint all over the hardwood floor, front door and our nice rug. I was so proud of him though. Without as much as a cuss word, he promptly cleaned it all up, took the rug outside in the pouring rain and the 12 degree celsius weather, knocked on our beloved neighbor David's door to borrow his pressure washer and the two of them pressure-washed at 10pm to save the rug. GOOD Neighbors RULE!! Have I mentioned how much I love these people?
:-)
Another hilarious story about Newton Tony this past week...the kids were on mid-term break and we didn't have a car so we spent a good 3-4 days poking around the neighborhood on foot. I had to walk to our post office for milk when I got desperate for groceries. Just the day before my Aunt had posted a comment on Facebook about our lack of vehicles and she sweetly (or sarcastically) suggested "Find a donkey to ride". Well, God has a sense of humor and as we were heading back from the post office, we ran into a local boy, 12 y.o. Thomas, who was working in his yard. I'd never met him before but I had met his mom. We got to chatting and he said, "Hey, do you and your kids want to come up the hill and help me take care of the 2 donkeys I care for - they can go for a ride, too." My jaw about dropped as I thought of my sweet aunt's comment and never wanting to miss a photo opportunity I emphatically answered, "YES! We'd LOVE to go! Just let me go grab my camera." So off we went and here's the photo to prove it! :) Touche'!!!
As for settling in, we are getting there. Clark is worried our family alone might be supporting the UK's economy. Too bad the pound for dollar rate is not so good. It's so hard to not shop and decorate though - they have such cute things and wandering around the streets of Salisbury is just too tempting.

We had big plans to take down Natalie's crib over the weekend as her new "big girl bedding" arrived a week or so ago. After dinner last night Clark said, "Ok, she reeeeally wants her new bed, I'm off to go set it up." Being sentimental, I said, "No, I just can't do it yet(take down the crib)...you might have to do it by yourself." Clark proceeds to go out in the garage and get all his tools to take it down, he heads upstairs and I notice it's quiet for a few minutes. Five minutes later he comes down with the tools in hand and with this sheepish, sweet 'Daddy' face and says, "I just can't do it. Not yet at least." OH boy, does he ever love those sweet babies!!
October was also full of lots of fun pumpkin and halloween activities. We went with some dear, new friends to a pumpkin patch in Antsy (funny name) about 45 minutes away and the kids got to play all kinds of pumpkin games, we had tea and coffee and cakes (always gotta have your tea) and they picked out pumpkins to take home and carve. It was so much fun! On Halloween night we went with 3 of our closest friends trick-or-treating and this year Liam really got into it and my usually shy boy (at least around bigger kids) was racing to the front of the pack to ring the doorbell and scream "Trick or TREAT!" For their school party, Liam was Batman, but then decided for Halloween he'd rather be a pilot. Natalie was a sweet Ladybug for both events. Clark and I had a village party to go to after the kid's TOT'ed and he dressed up like the "Greatest American Hero" and I went as a cheerleader (ironic b/c I can't even do a cartwheel). I told him not a soul would know who the GAH was and I was right but he did win a costume contest and was the talk of the party. He was clad in red tights and all. One thing about Clark - he doesn't mind being different.
We have found the coolest church. We fell in love almost instantly with it and one of it's pastor's, Richard, his wife, Ruth and their kids. Richard and Ruth had us over for a "Sunday Roast" after church and I can't explain it but we just knew we were home. They are amazing! Richard cooked a mean "Curry" -- that was his rendition of a Sunday Roast. Ruth is mom to FIVE kids and makes it look as easy as you've ever seen. I'm still trying to figure out how they do it all. They are awesome!!!
We have so much coming up in Nov/Dec - we are thrilled to be a part of so many festivities and the chance to celebrate Christmas in this area! We have two formal fancy Balls to attend. There is the Salisbury Cathedral Christmas Children's Service on Christmas Eve that is supposed to be out of this world. There is something called Pantomine in many of the big cities which is a play-type event for the whole family. We are participating in an American "Thanksgiving Dinner" on the Saturday following Thanksgiving on the base for anybody that wants to celebrate Thanksgiving. I am hosting a Coffee at our house in December as well as I'm sure a few other Christmas gatherings. We can't wait. The remembrance of Christ's birthday excites me like no other celebration! The pomp and circumstance is wonderful, but knowing HE arrived here on earth is glorious beyond words.
Oh, one other thing, I began a women's bible study at St. Paul's (our church) and we are doing a book by the british author, Michael Lloyd called "Cafe Theology". It is really really good and causing me to scratch my head a bit and examine my perspective on different theological topics. It's amazing! At first I thought it was going to be on how to have a theological discussion about Christianity while sharing a nice cuppa tea (duh, blonde girl); but boy was I wrong, it goes way deeper into discussions on Creation, the Trinity, the Resurrection and Ascension. Pretty nifty. You should check it out if this sort of thing interests you.
Time to wrap up and fix my sweet cousin Heather's French Dip Au Jus sandwiches. Yummy. Yummy. Love to you all :-) Please come visit us!
All my love, Cindy
p.s. Answered Prayer - Something simple but nonetheless amazing. Quick story - I left Clark's laptop on a park bench at a kid's playgrounds this last weekend on the Lakenheath base (about 4 hours away). I realized it when we got home about 10pm. I immediately called and the receptionist went down to the park to check but no laptop could be found and no one had turned one in. That night I tossed and turned all night and felt horrible about the whole thing. The next morning, while walking the kids down to school, I was thinking over the events that led to me loosing the laptop and thinking about Clark's reaction to me loosing something so valuable to him. While praying, God quickly brought to my mind Clark's response and how he had truly exemplified the character of Christ when he demonstrated, "compassion, and slow-to-anger" qualities toward me upon the news of his missing laptop. Me, on the other hand, I would have probably screamed my head off. But no, not Clark, he never even raised his voice. Later that morning, I called and talked to the manager, Rebecca, who then proceeded a full-on hunt for Clark's laptop. One of the housekeepers whom Rebecca had told, then told her husband who works in maintenance. Two hours later he comes back and says, "Wait, I think I just saw a post on the base online newspaper that someone has found a laptop in a park." So Rebecca calls Clark with the link to the ad and Clark emails the girl that found it and Rebecca retrieves the laptop and today spent her own money to mail it next-day back to us!" (Rebecca will be getting reimbursed for her expenses as well as a much deserved thank you gift.) We could not be more grateful. I know there are bigger and more serious prayer requests in God's ears but God heard my plea all night and I'm so grateful he cares about the little things. But two good things came from this, no three.
One, it showed me what an amazing husband I have and how his character, as was demonstrated through his response to me is so admirable and how much I want to possess those traits. Patience is a virtue.
Two, I felt just sick about loosing his computer. (It has his thesis on it) I thought, why couldn't I have lost mine? It showed me that when we mess up whether intentionally or unintentionally that we can really hurt other people and cause them suffering or at the very least inconvenience. Though we can't always be perfect and we are going to make mistakes, I've learned it's important to show mercy to those that don't deserve it and it's an honor and privilege to be the recipient of mercy when WE need it. Thank you Clark!
And Three, WOW! What a chain of miraculous events (there's even more to the story but I just couldn't fit it all in) that led to the finding of the computer - only God could have orchestrated all that.